I found your blog after hearing you on the air in Palm Springs. I notice you have a passion for alimony reform and assume you pay alimony. I retired almost a year ago and my wife and I split our time between the Northwest and the desert.
I am miserable in my marriage. I will spare you the details but I haven’t been happy for a long time. I don’t think she is happy either but I also don’t think she cares.
She spends most of her time with her friends shopping and playing tennis and going on walks. She barely even speaks to me and won’t go to counseling but then again, I don’t think it’s worth the time.