Is Everyone Having Sex with Their Boss?

Dear Readers:

It’s hard to believe but I received yet another email from an advice-seeker who is sleeping with the boss.  Not surprisingly, it’s a woman.

Sigh.

Of all the letters I’ve received on this subject, and there have been dozens, I have yet to hear from a man who is sleeping with his boss.  

If any of you men out there are giving your superior a little taste of your bologna pony at lunch or otherwise, please email me.  Please.

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Friend is Judging Me for Medicating My Son

Dear Robin:

After years of behavioral problems my 9-year-old son was diagnosed with ADHD and prescribed medication. The change in him has been remarkable and his father and I are so relieved because previously he was extremely hyper, could not focus in school, and prone to tantrums.

One of my friends from college (dropped out junior year) noted his change in behavior so I told her about his diagnosis and medication. She was appalled and ever since then has been sending me link after link about how kids are over-diagnosed and medicated for what she calls a “problem that is really just boys being boys.”

I love this gal but I am not interested in her opinion, especially since she is on about five different medications for depression, anxiety, sleeping problems, etc.

How do I tell her to bugger off without actually telling her to bugger off?

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