About a year ago, my husband announced he was under too much pressure and stress to think about sex. He asked me not to initiate anymore (I was ALWAYS the one to initiate) and basically said, “when I want to do it I’ll let you know.”
I am only 45 years old and not ready to give up sex, but I tried to be understanding. I focused on making him happy, being supportive of his career, and doing nice things for him whenever I could. Before the moratorium, he took Viagra to help with his erectile dysfunction. I’m telling you that because it comes into play for why I’m writing you.